People certainly go to strange extremes to impress people. I mean they will go out of their way to do something for someone and most of the time end up looking foolish and embarrassed, but all for what? Love? What is it anyways. I mean you can go through tons of jerks before you eventually find one even worth your time and then most the time that doesn't work out anyway.
I hate watching people get together and their lives become consumed with each other they lose their friends and their lives completely change. They shut people out and they change, most of the time for the worse and it is ugly and terrible to watch. I can't tell you how many people I have watched this happen to. Sometimes I think people don't even know what they want or what they are looking for. They see someone they like and they go after them and they become their world. People are really disgusting I mean no one wants to watch you canoodle all over each other.
I know I sound cynical but hey I am looking for someone just as much as the next person, I just question why and how people do it. I mean everyone wants to feel loved and accepted they want to find that place where they feel like they fit in. But running to someones arms isn't always the best place, especially if you are doing it just because you are scared of the alternative. Take time to be you and be single. It is okay you don't have to always have someone on your arm.
People go from one person to the next because they are lonely and they don't like being alone but that isn't a great excuse. That isn't healthy and it isn't fair to either one of you. Take time to know yourself and to and be alone. That isn't a bad thing, and hey love may just find you when you least expect it.
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